ca_snowflake made the icon was, based on the Decemberists' Apology Song, wherein the author has penned a convincing mea culpa regarding the loss of a friend's beloved bicycle. Lyrics for the song can be found here. I think ca_snowflake was particularly inspired when she chose the graphic to depict Madeleine. If I remember to do so, I'll try to play the song for you next time you're about.
Re: I have to ask....